Before working with Jess, I was heartbroken, and frustrated that my intimate relationships either felt filled with drama/insecurity or not passionate enough. I struggled to set authentic boundaries and that brought on unnecessary hurt and confusion. Through her compassionate coaching and empowering weekly exercises, Jessica helped me clarify my boundaries and practice exercises to deepen self love and personal empowerment.

I’ve done years of talk therapy trying to improve my sense of security, but in just a few sessions she was able to teach me ways to access a sense of confidence, security, & self love I’ve always yearned for. I also learned tips for manage emotions that get triggered through intimate relationships.  I can't recommend her coaching enough, it has been invaluable & one of the best gifts I’ve gotten myself.

Jess’s breakup alchemy program has been an incredible investment in my growth/well being. Particularly, being able to contact her through Voxer during the week has saved me as I break habits of wanting to talk to my ex. I can’t imagine going through this break up alone, and I’m excited about everything I’ve learned about myself… such as the way my brain/nervous system works while seeking partnership. I feel hopeful that my next partnership will be healthier and very meaningful.

I found jess at a time where I was recovering from "breaking up" with my employer of nearly 10 years as well as wanting to create a new relationship. She has seen me through this transitional time including a very "pregnant pause " where I developed a new mindset and clarity around my goals and thanks to her tools and practices was able to attune my emotional state to being not yet ready but determined for forward motion and manifestation.

As I've navigated this grief and tumult she's provided gentle accountability to keep embodying the change I want with the pleasure practices. She helped me get through a critical juncture where an ex reached out and what could have been a tailspin turned into a leap ahead. And now in both business and life she's helping me in my journey with boundaries to explore and play and trust myself and give myself more freedom and flexibility than I had with the rigid rules I had put in place in the initial stages of taking my power back from people and situations that no longer served me.

Most of all, talking things through with Jess is always empowering, always brings new points of view and a greater sense of freedom and possibility , and provides both a sense of quantum leaping and down to earth gentle accountability and structure . I believe I will get to where I want to be in both business and life , and that I have the tools and resources within to navigate the journey, and I definitely didn't at the beginning of our time together. 

This week (and I'm telling you, each week one of our learning’s circuits back, these are the tools that don't give out), someone asked me how the relationship is going. 

I told her about the time that you motivated me to lean in to who I am; to lean in to my empowered self, my sexy self, my assertive self, my playful self.

You said, with bubbliness, excitement, and conviction (paraphrasing) "Do you, and maybe he'll really like it." And sure enough, since I've embraced more and more of myself, my walls (which I view more as giant, green protective petals) have come down. I've blossomed before his eyes and he has stated how happy he is to see me glow again.

It started with building that security within myself, and blueprinting boundaries of respect for myself, and boundaries for others to honor. It started with reclaiming my power. Once I felt safe in myself, I felt strong enough to stand my ground against any perceived and real opposition.

We've been so good for months now. And it really takes two, and and really takes
(1) embodying the fullness of self (2) sharing it openly with my romantic partner, trusting that I will be ok no matter the outcome, and (another Jess lesson) expecting the best outcome when communicating.